I have such a need to connect with others.  I remember when we moved to Texas, I quickly signed up with a local MOP's (Mothers of Pre-Schoolers) group.  It felt so good to have a place to go every two weeks.  I wasn't completely alone anymore.  I was surrounded by other woman; wives, Moms, daughters, sisters and friends.  That group gave me the courage to make more connections which included a twins club and Bible study.  The more I "got out there" the easier it got. 

I longed for friendship.  I can remember practically  stalking a (now) dear friend of mine at our local SuperTarget.  She was shopping with her twin boys who were seated quietly in her shopping cart.  My two were running amuck around the store, giggling and teasing each other.  I struck up a conversation and within five minutes gave her my phone number and asked her to come over for a playdate the next week.  She smiled politely and to my suprise called me the following day and the rest is history.  Love you Julie!

I have been sitting at my computer today preparing for my Paris life.  I am sending out emails to women who offer monthly coffee groups and Womens Bible Study.   I found an American Church which offers Karate and Girl Scouts.  (I wonder if I am too late to order my cookies?). 

I am feeling more confidant that I will cultivate friendships with other expats and the french.  I will find and create a support system.  I will connect.